Birthday on a Budget

Tea Party

When you have multiple kiddos, birthdays get tricky. As a mama I want my kids to feel celebrated but I also don’t want to break the bank on birthdays, especially because our house celebrates four birthdays within the first three months of the New Year. This year my husband and I decided to allot a dollar amount to each child and they got to choose how they celebrated their birthday.


I want to share a few ideas to make a simple, yet fun and creative, birthday party. Mamas who have little girls, this one is for you.


Our afternoon tea party was a great way to invite a few of my daughter’s friends and their moms. We had 11 people present for the tea party. The girls came dressed in their finest tea dresses and the mamas visited while managing the amount of cake and tea that was spilt.


I sent a free online invitation to each of the families. No need to pay for an invitation when an online one is free and easy to get an RSVP.  I went to Trader Joe’s and bought discounted flowers and eucalyptus. I hung eucalyptus over the table and placed a few flowers in mason jars on the tables. I wanted the table to feel elegant so I used white dishes I already had- again, free. I did buy pink plastic utensils to make the clean up easier. I bought a 97 cent balloon and tassel arrangement to place by the food table.  


The morning of the party I ran to our local grocery store and picked up a clearance cake and cupcakes. They were the perfect size, very elegant and tasted just as good. Cheap but beautiful! Win- win in my book! We had heart shaped peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, fruit, homemade muffins, crackers and hummus and last but not least non-caffeinated tea. I also provided juice and mint water for those who didn’t want something hot.


I always love to have a little game to play at a party. My sister helped me by making this game; pin the teacup on the saucer. The girls loved it and it was cheap to make. I only had to buy the white poster board and doilies. I had the construction paper and glue. We also had coloring pages I printed off from my personal computer. I downloaded a few sheets of teacups for the girls to color as we waited for everyone to arrive at the very beginning! It was a great time-filler for the girls before we really got started with the party.


Total I spent $50 for this amazing tea party and it was a total hit! It was a beautiful party. I stayed within my budget, which made my husband and me happy! Our girl felt celebrated and valued, not to mention it was a great time visiting with other moms and their daughters.